'' hey guuuurll who have yuu slept with?''
''erm.. no one''
''whaaaaaaaaaaa-?!''
'' im a VIRGIN''
*shock, horror, music stopss, jaws drop, birds diee*
i mean wtd? why is it so much of a shock? its like 'naaaaaaaaah i can't do that, that takes the mick , i couldnt survive''
¬_¬ -_________-
well how have yuu been surviving the rest of yur twelve yearss on this earth without engaging in intercourse. c'mon now lets not be silly.
now, if someone would kindly approach me and tell me a valid reason for sleeping with someone at this age. anyone? anybody? no? okayy.
precisely. i mean, dont give those eyes, thinking im a mad woman because i havent slept with anyone, or haven't gone 'this far' with anyone. what is my business between sheets, when i should be between my books, trying to please my mother and God? at the end of the day, yuu could say it comes down to self worth. or lack of.
im not trying to say that everyone who has slept with someone at this age is a sket/slag/whore, watevss, all im trying to say that at the end of the day what could yuu possibly gain, right now at this age? lemme tell yuu.
1. a baby
2. an STD
3. and probably a form of short lived pleasure.
boys nowadayss, just sleep with girls to get ratingss from thierr friendss. '' ahh fam, i beat chelsea yesterdayy, reh teh teh'' and then his boys , idk what they do, applaud him or somethinggg. with girlss, its either ''oh yur a sket, yur nasty'' or ''OMG! REALLY!? aah he's buff, easssssssyy''
NO. JUSTT NO. STOP IT RIGHT NOW.
if yuu could understand the emotional tension yuu put yur mind through everytime yuu sleep with a boy/girl and yur leaving a piece of yurself with each person. maybe not so much boys but girls yess. especially if the girl is seeking for 'true love' and she thinks she'll find it in sex, so she is never satified and keeps on going from guy to guy. thats one mentally damagedd chickk right there.
then there's this whole issues of 'beat and delete' , 'lash and dash' , 'use and abuse' . yani, would he/shhe be able to do this if yuu were reading yur bookss. no, no, no,no.
i mean im not condemingg, im disaprovingg. lets think about thiss shall weee;
yur married, to the person who yuu think is yur one and only, soulmate, watever.
he's still virginal as are yuu. its very special because he'll be the first and last yuu lose it too, and yuu know he wont have any STDs, because he slept with ten other women last week, meaning yuu also wouldnt have slept with them, and thier disease. yuu have a baby, so whatt? yur married there's no real issuess, no embarrasment or dissapointmentt. perfecto.
now picture this;
yur fifteen yuu slept with , idk , 'Devontae' now yur preggers..
he ran away and denied being yur baby daddy, yur mum kicked yuu out, yur friends arent really yur friendss and now yur alone not knowing what to do? worst case senario. unless yuu abort the beautiful baby, which is another blog all togetherr.
i was watchingg 'The House Bunny' the other day, and the girl announced (well she whispered) how she was a virgin. so her firends organised this whole orgy party so she could loose it 'as soon as possible' i mean WHYYYYYYYYYY???!!
but yeahh, there is NO rush, NO urgency. just be a fifteen year old and do what fifteen year olds are meant to do. cause yur virginity isnt something yuu can find at lost property. ati, when its gone, its GONEE. (physically anywayss) then yuu may end up regretting it, like i know many people do.
so yeahh, ask me 'are yuu virginal' and i'll answer 'yayyerr, im still a proud holder of my v-card'
last notee; 1 corinthians 7;2, 1 corinthians 6;13 & 1 Thessalonians 4;3-4
