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GOTBOOTS. GOTBOOTS. GOTBOOTS.

boysboysboys.

before i begin, this isnt to ALL boys, just generally the ones i see about, encounter etc etc.

what I personally fail to see, is why boys think be a "player" & a "dog" is acceptable, or good.

nooo, its not. its selfishh.

if a girl even thought about doing it, she's be branded a "sket" or whatever name yuu wanna call her, but then boys get ratings and become five star generals. hmmmm.

personally, i think the behaviour os some guys has deteriorated over the last couple of years, especially in Reading :/ the way guys are going through girls is just disgustingg, but then yet, at the end of they day.. a guy would still rather get serious or marry a virgin. IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE.

reasons that guys approach girls are usually for "beating" reasons -___- and another thing. I'm OBVIOUSLY going to see warning signs when yuu try and step to me like this:

"OI! "

"..."

"OI! OI MYSIZE?! COME HERE."

lets say for scenario's sake I walk over there..

"yes?"

"ooh, yur kinda of buff, still. ay, set me your number, init. "

ONE. why are yuu shouting/whistling/making noise? is that even appropriate? am i a dog that yuu should be calling me like that.

TWO. DID MY MOTHER NAME ME "MYSIZE", cause I'm sure if yuu check my birth certificate, yuu will find no such thing there.

THREE. why would i give yuu my number if i just met yuu, like literally off the street. surely yuu have other things to do with yur life, than just stand on corners looking jobless finding girls in the street. one day, yuu will meet a psycho, and i pray she never leaves yuu alone.

another thing.. if yuu know yuu love&respect yur mum, then the same way yuu love and respect her, is the same way yuu should treat a girl. there's no confusion or hesistation.

playing games is not fun either. if yuu know yuu dontt know what yuu want, can yuu please make this clear so people arent wasting time going round in circles? k, thanks.

I think the issue here is respect. this is both girls AND boys fault. if girls didn't fall so easily to the sweet nothings certain boys say in their ears, boys would not easily take advantage like they do.

but tbh, guys. why waste yur time with short term useless flings? yuu either get serious with yur future, or look for someone yuu actually want to spend time with? because in the end, when yuu feeel like settling down, who's gonna want an dog, who has used, been used, and if probably not as good looking as they were anyways?

the A word.

the A word.

ABORTION.

yes yes yes, this very word has caused so much controversy, its unbelievable.

personally i think its WRONG.

mainly because of my Christian values, but also before of my ethical values as well. i mean yuu could argue and say its not a fully formed baby yet reh teh teh..

butt if yuu grow a plant and it growingg and yuu can only see the shoot growingg, does that mean its not a plant?

precisely.

just becausee, the child or whatever yuu wanna call it has not grown a heart and lungs etc etc, doesnt make it less human that the rest of us.

if i went round stamping on every growingg thing in the soil, because it was "in the way" i would eventually die of no oxygen supply. abortingg babies all the time, will eventually have an effect, i dont know how but every choice we make now, does not only make a difference for today but for the rest of our livess.

yuu may argue and say, "but hey, what if i was raped?"

well, it wasnt the baby's fault yuu were rapedd. fair enough it's a horrible experience yuu never want to remember, but if yuu cant bare looking at the baby every day.. give it up for adoption. there are plenty of willing couples waiting at any opportunity to have a child they can call their own.

oh, but what annoys me alot is when parents find out there's a chance that thier child could be disabled. and then they abort it.

i meann .. what? like seriouslyy.

to me this reminds me of Hitler and the "perfect race" wheere he killed all the disabled people. disabled people are no less human than we, and are usually extremely loving. like if yuu can't bear the stress etc etc, like i said before, give the child up.

firstly, if yur getting an abortion beecause "oh the condom split" let me remind yuu. if yur not responsible enough or rich enough, or earning enough for yurself yet, for yuu to be having an abortion. really, ideally yuu shouldn't be sleeping with... anybody.

abortions are really really horrible thingss, like i've seen fotos of aborted babies and its just putrid.

when yuu see a child playing and growing into its full potential, why would yuu basically get rid of something beautiful as that, especially if that was yur own flesh and blood?

*sighhh. not to mention it can also ruin yur chances of having children when yur olderr.

REMEMBER: choices yuu make today will also bare for consequence for yur future♥