boysboysboys.

before i begin, this isnt to ALL boys, just generally the ones i see about, encounter etc etc.

what I personally fail to see, is why boys think be a "player" & a "dog" is acceptable, or good.

nooo, its not. its selfishh.

if a girl even thought about doing it, she's be branded a "sket" or whatever name yuu wanna call her, but then boys get ratings and become five star generals. hmmmm.

personally, i think the behaviour os some guys has deteriorated over the last couple of years, especially in Reading :/ the way guys are going through girls is just disgustingg, but then yet, at the end of they day.. a guy would still rather get serious or marry a virgin. IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE.

reasons that guys approach girls are usually for "beating" reasons -___- and another thing. I'm OBVIOUSLY going to see warning signs when yuu try and step to me like this:

"OI! "

"..."

"OI! OI MYSIZE?! COME HERE."

lets say for scenario's sake I walk over there..

"yes?"

"ooh, yur kinda of buff, still. ay, set me your number, init. "

ONE. why are yuu shouting/whistling/making noise? is that even appropriate? am i a dog that yuu should be calling me like that.

TWO. DID MY MOTHER NAME ME "MYSIZE", cause I'm sure if yuu check my birth certificate, yuu will find no such thing there.

THREE. why would i give yuu my number if i just met yuu, like literally off the street. surely yuu have other things to do with yur life, than just stand on corners looking jobless finding girls in the street. one day, yuu will meet a psycho, and i pray she never leaves yuu alone.

another thing.. if yuu know yuu love&respect yur mum, then the same way yuu love and respect her, is the same way yuu should treat a girl. there's no confusion or hesistation.

playing games is not fun either. if yuu know yuu dontt know what yuu want, can yuu please make this clear so people arent wasting time going round in circles? k, thanks.

I think the issue here is respect. this is both girls AND boys fault. if girls didn't fall so easily to the sweet nothings certain boys say in their ears, boys would not easily take advantage like they do.

but tbh, guys. why waste yur time with short term useless flings? yuu either get serious with yur future, or look for someone yuu actually want to spend time with? because in the end, when yuu feeel like settling down, who's gonna want an dog, who has used, been used, and if probably not as good looking as they were anyways?